Mistakes Every One Should Know And Avoid

Life, you can say, is time spent on this earth but the time itself is so precious that one should always know about some common mistakes and avoid these as early as possible to control the unrecoverable damage and repent later. Understanding these mistakes will certainly compel you to think about self-transformation. let us see what are these mistakes.

Not act when sun is shining : When we are younger we must stay vigilant about our health and career both. Parents must think in advance how their children would make them fit and suitable to take on the challenges of life. One can not afford to ignore health and career both.

Run after things which is not worth: 95 % of average people are after so many things or such persons in their life which are not worth to them, at all. They even don't know why the seek them. I have seen such people, if you ask them , they bluntly say what is the need to know, this is the height.

Run when time is out: very very big and common mistake. Anything you start or put your efforts just assure yourself and ask is it right time to do? if confused consult your mentors or experienced people in the field. Having billions of dollars at the age of 85 and at 35 makes a lot of difference. At the age of 85, I feel the money is notional, it may not bring you the joy what you feel at the age of 35. We have to draw a clear line and follow it with utmost clarity.

Always trying to keep others happy: I recommend every one of you to honestly assess yourself if you are not a monk or sannyasi. You will wonder what kind of life we are living. Most probably you would laugh at yourself and that too loudly. I hope you are getting me. Everything you do is for happiness for others most of the time. You work for siblings, society, organization, and so on. In this whole process you simply forget yourself and the true happiness becomes a distinct reality.

  

Never think about priority: Confusion about what to do at what stage creates lots of uncertainty which leads to indecisiveness. We should know about our realistic priorities and not the one which is just a created priority. Imagine a person putting his entire energy after supporting an election campaign while his parents are not well and he is not attending them. On several occasion we feel sad about our investment of time on wrong priorities. A person is deeply engaged in social matters while his children were lacking guidance about their future. These are some instances.

Ignorant and casual approach in abundance: Everything we do, we have to be focused to achieve. Without concluding tasks we can not move ahead. Our approach has to be definite. People don't take seriously to people having casual approach.

Influenced by matters or persons which are totally irrelevant : If we get influenced quite often by different groups, persons, situations and change our goals frequently, success too gets postponed. Life is full of different events, occasions, situations, groups, people, environments and atmospheres. All the time we cannot allow these to pull back. We should be vigilant about our deeds and performance to achieve what we really aspire for.

The mistakes discussed above makes major impact on most of our life and sometimes we don't even notice this. To achieve proper balance in life, we must avoid these.        

 

Short Quotes on Life 2

Short Quotes About Life 
by Ashok Madrecha

Responsibility, Updated Skills, Timely proper communication and Integrity are the four pillars on which job safety and progress both are assured.

Separate your thoughts from breathing and see the miracles of meditation.

My perceptions, memories, observations, apprehensions and experiences all these builds my belief but thanks almighty, I am still aware about this.

When we do something for own, we connect with world but if we do something for others, we connect with universe.

Nothing is coincidence, everything happens well planned and decided by destiny but destiny is our own Karma (past actions) and by knowing this we can increase our acceptance level resulting to lower stress in our life. Be happy.

Shortcuts are addiction, they lead us to resort unfair practices and thereafter a miserable life. Choice is yours.

Broaden your vision, probably you will forgive all your enemies, opponents and it will give a chance to peace.

Know the power of feelings, understand to control emotions and most important , where not to react at all. All these will certainly make you a good leader and best achiever.

I wonder, how much I resisted doing new things but most of the time it was a great experience and learning too.

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Think Beyond Numbers

We are growing up with constantly chasing various kinds of numbers. We think and act while keeping numbers always in mind. I don't deny the importance of numbers, but life is far larger than numbers. Knowingly or unknowingly we are so entangled with the numbers that everything we try and express in numbers. We count likes, shares and views on social media. We tend to feel depressed if people don't like our selfies. Sometimes we can't help, a student's performance is measured in numbers, employee's and even company's ranking is decided with targets in numbers and the list goes on. A mere running after numbers and ignoring true happiness will make you imbalanced.

There is an ocean of data and numbers around us and everybody by default follows some set of data either related or unrelated to him. Many of us follow these as if we are not left with any other option or we have such apprehensions in our minds. Prolonged chasing of numbers certainly creates stress and it has to be managed by differentiating what is meaningful, worthwhile and what's not.

Think beyond numbers, there are many things in life where counting is not important. Few of them are:

Feelings
              Emotions
                              Gratitude
                                             Values
                                                        Vision
                                                                   Respect
                                                                                Love

and lots more aspects of real life, all these, we can't afford to ignore. This is an info tech age, and we are bound to remain with numbers, but by being cautious we can weed out excessive numbers and make our life happier, balanced and effective too.

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Journey Towards Innerself

My inner journey is taking me to places which are strange and totally unknown. There are challenges and manifestations. The path is sometimes cozy and difficult at other times.

Massive revelations, new horizons, and stellar black holes are being experienced as I advance and cross billions of galaxies. Everything is amazing and unique. My perceptions and beliefs which were drawn since many births are reshaping and leading to the complete overhaul.

The soul is really eternal and witnessing the body around it. I feel finding new definitions for everything I come across and the true calmness is apparent and sustained for longer periods. Since childhood, I heard many times that the sky is the limit, but now I can envision that sky may be only the beginning, real journey is far bigger, better and divine.

Observing and expressing in words all these simultaneously is a difficult task. The journey took me

समय की पुकार

अब सारे नियम बदल दो

ओ नेतृत्व, ससमय दखल दो।

तीर प्रत्यंचा पे चढ़ा है इस बार
धनुष कर रहा जोरो की टंकार।

वक़्त का तकाजा है
केंद्र में सामर्थ्यवान राजा है। 

सिद्ध करो पुरुषार्थ को
याद करो पार्थ को। 

करते जो विष वमन
जानले वो ऐ वतन। 

धरा के उपकारों का कर्ज

बहुत बढ़ रहा ये मर्ज। 

कुछ तो बड़ा फैसला हो
आर पार का हौसला हो। 

जयचंदो को रोंदने का समय
देश करता है अनुनय। 

सत्य को सम्बल दो
निर्बल को बल दो। 

फड़कती भुजाएँ वीर जवानों की
याद आती है फिर से बलिदानों की। 

हर चुनोती में विजय का वरण हो
गौरवशाली राष्ट्र निर्माण का
सुन्दर सा वातावरण हो
सुन्दर सा वातावरण हो।

कटाक्ष

 कटाक्ष

शराफ़त के ज़माने अब कहाँ
यूँ अकेले मत पड़ो यहाँ वहाँ।

समूहों के झुण्ड आस पास है
कोई साधारण, कोई खास है।

हर कोई खींचने की फ़िराक में
मना करो तो आ जाते आँख में।

जंगल छोड़ भेड़िये शहरों में आने लगे
सुन्दर लिबासों में शरीफों को लुभाने लगे।

ख्वाब बेचने का व्यापार चल पड़ा
लालच में हर कोई मचल पड़ा।

समूहों में हर चीज जायज हो जाती
विचारधाराएं ख़ारिज हो जाती।

नये दौर के तर्क नए , सत्य स्वयं भटक गया
इंसान इंसानियत छोड़, समूहों में अटक गया।

ईमान कम बचा , नियति तो बहुत स्पष्ट है
शिकायत किससे करे जब पूरा तन्त्र ही भ्रष्ट है।

...... अशोक मादरेचा 

Happening Quotient

Recently I was going through the trend of commonly asked questions raised by people in seminars on motivation, I clearly sensed that there is a common tendency of having lack of clarity about how to get things done faster and most of the questions were raised had same essence, though raised in different words and tones by different individuals.

Previous experience says that everything which happens always had its very own "happening quotient". Happening quotient is like feasibility apprehended in advance. In larger term it includes mapping of resources, approach, timing, location and anticipation of probable situations. We come across many people with repeated complaints about many things not happening as per their wishes. In the reply to them, some may talk about destiny and others will talk about blaming something and things goes on. 

Let us understand it more precisely, farmers sow seed and grow crops. It's not as easy as it is mentioned. The combination of timely seed sowing in fertile land with availability of adequate rain or water, sunlight, fertilizer and constant care all resulted in a good crop. What is important here is to understand in simple term that to get success or accomplishing something one has to understand its probability in context with other factors and resources and its availability in a given situation.