Imbalance in life has set so deep in our life that we are completely
modified and living in an artificial state of mind. Our originality is
lost and we have become totally a different person.
Let's test our originality and ask ourselves some questions :
1. Can we smile in real ?
2. Can we laugh freely ?
3. Do we feel close to our family ?
4. Can we really define our own happiness ?
5. Do we enjoy being with our friends ?
6. Are we afraid of something all the time ?
7. Have art and hobbies completely evaporated from our life ?
8. Feeling fed up ?
Such
honest questioning will open our heart and pave way to do really
meaningful in life. We are not taking adequate pauses while remaining in the
race. This causes our inner system highly stressed and prone to
failure. What for we are in the race ? We must ensure that whether it is
just for the sake of showing off or it is really needed. We don't have time to
read or discuss such things as we are not original now.
There
may be varied reasons for loosing originality like attaining prosperity,
meeting some accident, bad health, reaching a powerful position,
the disloyalty of some closed friend or relative, break up in any
relationship and the list goes on.
Most negative part of loosing
originality is that those who lost it, they simply don't agree to this
and continue to suffer for a prolonged time or forever sometime.
Mute
question is how to remain original. There are symptoms we must observe
and knowing these would make it easier to remain original.
We must observe and find answers to these questions :
Does our friend visit or contact us less as compared to earlier ?
Do we feel isolated in our society?
Do people respect us from the heart or just for some compulsion ?
If working, Are we sought after or avoided by subordinates ?
Such
introspection may bring some real changes if we are honest with
ourselves. In fact an original person only can enjoy life and every
moment of it. Being original makes us stress free always as we are not
pretending anything and close to nature and ultimately more meaning to
our life too.