Showing posts with label #balancing Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #balancing Life. Show all posts

Jul 31, 2016

Short Quotes on life

Evaluate yourself.. how many people you supported, how many appreciate you and to what extent it makes you happy. All these will make you understand better about your life and suddenly a change of 360 degree angle may become reality.
बताइये ... यदि हम हमारे सारे कार्यों , विचारों एवं संपर्कों , सभी में "मेरा क्या" और "मेरा कितना" इसी पर अपना ध्यान केंद्रित करते रहेंगे तो जीवन में सच्ची खुशियां कैसे प्राप्त करेंगे। परमार्थ में जिसने स्वार्थ खोज लिया उन्हें मेरा मेरा करने की जरुरत ही नहीं रहती।
Thinking from others perspective can make lot of difference in any relationship. Forgiveness is noble, it's never a defeat. Following noble thoughts will certainly bring happiness, just trust.
Having clarity about your priorities is a big achievement. Generally we are confused in choosing right priorities at different stages of life. Money, freedom and inner happiness are three basic choices available. Decide what exactly you wish to achieve and be happy in rest of your life.
Wishing someone on birthday or anniversary may seem to be routine but don't leave this, it is nice way to remain connected. Positive vibes are always for sharing and it prevents you from feeling lonely too.
Jealousy has strange feature, it is always born between related or known people. The moment you achieve something better than others, you don't have to create opponents, they sprout spontaneously. Only precaution you can take is, limit your display.
Right postures, proper breathing and a heart full of nice feeling leads your life out of chaos and all these makes you more healthy.
This is Info-tech age, tonnes of information are thrown around us. We have to choose what to see, process, accept, reject or simply ignore out of it.
"What I will get" can't be applied in every action. There are several occasions we come across where we should not think in this term. Many relations are sustaining because there are people who don't keep account of "what I will get"
You may not agree with someone but the way you differ, makes lot of difference.
अपने भम, पाले हुए डर और मान्यताओं पर गौर करो। जिंदगी को कभी दूसरे नजरिये से भी देखना चाहिए। सिर्फ अपने ही दृष्टिकोण से देखने से जीवन में ठहराव आ जाता है।
धार्मिक और आध्यात्मिक दो शब्द ऐसे है जिनका अंतर जानना जरूरी है। यदि आप धार्मिक हो तो आपके लिए बहुत से नियम इस संसार में पूर्वनिर्धारित है परन्तु यदि आप आध्यात्मिक हो तो आपको नियम की जरूरत शायद ही पड़े। 
 If you feel you missed something in life than just drop that thinking. It's damn sure even if you had achieved that, your worries would have remained for some other thing. It's all very common..take it easy and enjoy what your present offers you.
          ..... Ashok Madrecha 
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May 29, 2016

Perceiving The Existence of Soul

Our body has some special part and possess forces which are constantly keeping a watch on anything we act or think. In India many call it a third eye. Some people may agree or some may not but it is really interesting that there is a big hard disk or server existing within our soul which is in our body.

The soul is eternal so the server or hard disk too should be working inside it. The server is having far bigger capacity of memory to store huge data and it processes these sets of data when there is a conducive environment. This is a journey of knowing the unknown within us. 

We behave as per our basic nature, perceptions and beliefs but deep within ourselves there is a huge system which works constantly. We call it by different names like Destiny, Karma and so on to the extent we develop understanding about it. I am not talking about religion here rather striving for a constructive thought process about our inner self. Soul-searching and religion both are totally different though their meaning is known to be synonymous in common parlance. Generally religion is evolved by others and then followed, while soul-searching is always an individual approach where in it is not necessary to follow a defined set of rules, eventually it brings different experience too. So mute question comes up, how do we know about this inner system and benefit from it and start a nice journey towards complete self-realization if we really aspire for it.

Some steps we can explore are explained here:

Observation : Observing is an art. how to observe, what to observe and how to remain vigilant while observing, all these questions are very important and one has to find answers on his own by practicing observance individually. Some of the area may be like observing sunrise, inner feelings, behavior of self and others, flowing water, watching stars or moon at midnight, breathing, emotions and so on.
Thought process : It is interesting to note that once we learn observing, our thought process start getting direction. We get closer to more consciousness-centric reality. In straight words, we start having grip on our thought-process.

Meditation : There is enough literature, write-ups available everywhere but just to simplify it I would like to add that meditation can not be pursued, instead it should happen naturally. It does not always require forest or some lonely place, It is within you and let it reveal itself by being what you are in real. Our calmness is our meditation, Our concentration is our meditation and in fact our happiness is true meditation. I am not playing with words, its really true that when you are happy, that state of mind is really a true meditation.

Change : You might have heard that change is sure, inevitable and everything changes and so on. Yes I too agree with these facts but my point is think about "desired or required change". Life is so small so we can not remain aloof and let every change take place as it happens. We as an eternal soul can make changes.When meditation start happening, changes do take place positively. It is not by compulsion, it is spontaneous. Yes each of us will have a different story but meditation helps a lot.

Consistency : All of the above, if not followed or attained on sustained basis it looses consistency and thus its effectiveness eventually. Each time you meditate or observe you will enjoy to know that  different avenues are opening up. You will be able to find your answers on your own and its a great fun too.

Attaining Purity : Purity may have different meaning but here it is referred for state of our soul. When our soul-searching starts it heals, it brings changes, it liberates, it affects our health positively, it increases our intuition, penance and the more we advance, more we are near to purity and transformation. All of sudden you can not talk about purity, it has to be attained by following the other points we discussed above.

Last but not least, if we really follow and feel all these the journey of self-realization starts......
Ashok Madrecha

Apr 24, 2016

Start with vision

Life paves different ways to live. We constantly act and react, sometimes necessary and sometimes unnecessarily. It all depends on our thought process and the vision we develop over a long period. Vision once set in our mind affects our entire life. Recently somebody asked me, what is the best gift from parents to their children, I simply replied " If you can give them the vision of right kind, it will the best gift for them. 

Vision defines your goal, ambition, destination, lifestyle, relationship, wealth, luck, friends, networking, carrier, health, success, happiness and whatnot. We find people struggling for wealth, good perks, real brothers fighting for a piece of land, Industrialists fighting for corporate takeovers, Political leaders seeking votes with all unfair means, all these speak about their kind of vision they possess. You may notice, apparently looking powerful, they all are in a state of unsecured feeling and their vision is obstructed by their own thought process. A visionary person always believes in creating and adding value. He would not waste time in dividing people. 

You may find there are many people who are wealthy but happiness is with people with vision and positive mindset only. If our present is not as per our expectation who bars us to improve and evolve a broad vision which should attract good luck to us. Believe me, if you practice such kind of thinking with having a feeling of wellness for all, you will constantly attract far better time in your life. Yes, it's your turn now.

Mar 19, 2016

#Meaningful Life

Any wise person would definitely feel at some point of time and he would be compelled to think  what is the purpose of life. If this becomes clear, life finds its meaning. Finding a purpose is all matter of individual choice and there can not be a rule of thumb. Let us analyze and try following three steps to get as near as possible to reach a process of finding a purpose in life so the true happiness is attained.

Step 1 : Ascertain symptoms of purposeless life: 

We find people saying :
I feel just bored living a routine life.
I wish more freedom.
I feel my friends and relatives avoid me.
If something happened like this I would have done extremely well.
I don't like anybody in this world.
This world is hopeless.
I am just alive.
Even if I extend favor people forget it.
Where is happiness.
Life is all challenge.
I want a complete change.
There should be a nice person with me to whom I can share everything
and so on...

If you feel anything like the above, then this is true that you are not living a meaningful life. You are living a life either full of unrealistic expectations or you are completely directionless.

Let us go further to the second step,

Step 2 : Ensure purpose of life to make it meaningful

It is mentioned earlier that this is an individual choice but we can start thinking this way and find it as soon as possible:

Accept first, everything is not ours and we are not compelled  to react to everything what happens around us even if it is affecting us. The moment you assume something is yours, be it a person or object, worries of protecting it will be transferred to you so it is up to you what exactly you should own it or not.  What to seek and pursue is always our choice but that doesn't mean we follow everything which comes in our way. Ascertain well in which field we can excel and at what point of our age we are. Take proper stock of resources available and correlate everything to have proper direction. One should also think what makes her or him happy. At some point of time one can be happy with something and may not at other point of time. If something has gone forever it must be accepted. If something is available to others, that should not be your problem, In such thought process try to figure out what can be achieved by you at what cost and whether it is worth for you in terms of happiness or else.

Step 3 :  List your Goals and segregate them and act upon
Once you conclude very purpose or purposes of your life, set goals which may be of short-term and long-term. Of course every milestone may not give you happiness, but the result would make you happy if your direction is well thought and by this process you will be able to visualize how to set balance in life and figure out the true meaning in it.

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