People crave for results, fruits, comfort, pleasant situation, power, fame, good health, fashion, glamour and so many things. Surprisingly, many of them want it free of cost with no sacrifice.
The world "free" is very attractive and probably searched frequently on all search engines too. In my 30 years of practice, I experienced it very closely with people of almost all age groups. The situation is so discouraging that, if you advise someone to pursue and take some pain, he feels offended. What does it mean? Only taking, collecting, managing to have and never give apart, not to be bothered and, all this reflects orientation of a person. In the age of technology, we find people believing more and more in "things will settle automatically" and the outcome will be as per their requirement.
Please allow me to be rude to say that thief are not just the people who steal something, doing nothing and expecting all good is a big theft. In fact, it hurts constantly, if it has become habit.
How To Overcome Such Orientation Or Mentality
Now the question comes how to overcome such orientation or mentality. There are two kinds of people, one, those who wants change, but just lack motivation or some kind of backing, second, those who are by nature big thief and always avoid taking efforts , for this kind of people, to be very frank, no outside motivation works, they will repeatedly go through a number of lessons in life and till the time they really understand , time would have gone for them to make a change. I know I am rude here in writing this truth but it would be unjustified if I don't show real picture.
For those who want to make a real change, I would like to go on writing.. Count your active life left , that too now, be realistic, see who are the people whom you never noticed, but helping you without exceptions, I know many of you would answer, "I don't have time" but just think, if everyone says the same thing, no one would have time for others and our tiny world would become more selfish which is already happening. It's your call, it's your priority or orientation, which will define your destiny too.
Don't lose hope, initially it will sound very odd because you are not attuned to "work-deserve-results" mode. Gradually, it will be new normal and, have my words, you will be proud of yourself with a wonderful feeling of good life with better orientation.
CA Ashok Madrecha
