Life demands connecting and reconnecting with variety of people. It
is
very important to understand how we connect or reconnect with people. It
is well-known fact that if we respect someone, it makes him happy and
if we hurt his ego it would invite his anger. If we salute or shake
hand with smiling
face it makes a lot of difference. If an employee while attending his or
her duty says good morning to boss, it makes difference. If two friends
are meeting after a long time then they would notice each other how
they are reconnecting. Successful people always balance their life by
maintaining their behavior in right direction. I noticed many
cases where promotion of particular employees was kept on hold
explaining
no reasons and the only reason was that the employee did not know the
basic knowledge of how to connect well. Not only in job, it affects our
personal life too. Take an example, a person arranged a party and
invited many friends. One of his good friend could not come due to
sickness of his spouse. The friend called and expressed his inability to
come. While attending call, the person simply said OK and not even
bothered to ask about health of his friend's spouse. Here we miss out
badly and forget how to connect properly. If some sweet words can heal
someone
than why not to say and win heart too. Is it necessary to have some
academic educational for all these gestures.
Sometime thinking of
who will start first makes thing complex. Life is like a river and
there are only two sides. We all too have to move and flow between these
two sides only. My point here is that these two sides are always facing
each other and they have to stay internally well-connected for the
flow of the water. The same is true when we interact with someone and our
inner self remains well-connected to communicate better and have a
nice relationship too. The connecting or reconnecting naturally makes a lasting effect. There are different way to connect by
meeting personally, talking on phone, gifting something, helping someone
by extending a favor and so on. Let us connect better to have balance in our life.
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