Jul 31, 2016

Short Quotes on life


Evaluate yourself.. how many people you supported, how many appreciate you and to what extent it makes you happy. All these will make you understand better about your life and suddenly a change of 360 degree angle may become reality.
बताइये ... यदि हम हमारे सारे कार्यों , विचारों एवं संपर्कों , सभी में "मेरा क्या" और "मेरा कितना" इसी पर अपना ध्यान केंद्रित करते रहेंगे तो जीवन में सच्ची खुशियां कैसे प्राप्त करेंगे। परमार्थ में जिसने स्वार्थ खोज लिया उन्हें मेरा मेरा करने की जरुरत ही नहीं रहती।
Thinking from others perspective can make lot of difference in any relationship. Forgiveness is noble, it's never a defeat. Following noble thoughts will certainly bring happiness, just trust.
Having clarity about your priorities is a big achievement. Generally we are confused in choosing right priorities at different stages of life. Money, freedom and inner happiness are three basic choices available. Decide what exactly you wish to achieve and be happy in rest of your life.
Wishing someone on birthday or anniversary may seem to be routine but don't leave this, it is nice way to remain connected. Positive vibes are always for sharing and it prevents you from feeling lonely too.
Jealousy has strange feature, it is always born between related or known people. The moment you achieve something better than others, you don't have to create opponents, they sprout spontaneously. Only precaution you can take is, limit your display.
Right postures, proper breathing and a heart full of nice feeling leads your life out of chaos and all these makes you more healthy.
This is Info-tech age, tonnes of information are thrown around us. We have to choose what to see, process, accept, reject or simply ignore out of it.
"What I will get" can't be applied in every action. There are several occasions we come across where we should not think in this term. Many relations are sustaining because there are people who don't keep account of "what I will get"
You may not agree with someone but the way you differ, makes lot of difference.
अपने भम, पाले हुए डर और मान्यताओं पर गौर करो। जिंदगी को कभी दूसरे नजरिये से भी देखना चाहिए। सिर्फ अपने ही दृष्टिकोण से देखने से जीवन में ठहराव आ जाता है।
धार्मिक और आध्यात्मिक दो शब्द ऐसे है जिनका अंतर जानना जरूरी है। यदि आप धार्मिक हो तो आपके लिए बहुत से नियम इस संसार में पूर्वनिर्धारित है परन्तु यदि आप आध्यात्मिक हो तो आपको नियम की जरूरत शायद ही पड़े। 
 If you feel you missed something in life than just drop that thinking. It's damn sure even if you had achieved that, your worries would have remained for some other thing. It's all very common..take it easy and enjoy what your present offers you.
          ..... Ashok Madrecha 
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Jul 20, 2016

Start Living Life in Your Own Way




The great gap of our efforts and the yield creates a lot of dissatisfaction. Whenever I asked about life in my conferences, I noticed some common things prevailing such as lack of clarity, and everybody was more concerned about others. The funny part was that those who thought they are more committed to family, relatives, friends etc, they were more unhappy lot. In fact these people were in impression that they are doing a lot for family etc. but in turn they were emotionally bound and became more expecting from others but the Others were in comfortable zone and not thinking of the contribution made by their family members etc. One has to strike right kind of balance between self-development and helping others. 

We have to understand more about efforts, attachment and expectations. Being human, we take part in something, we stick to it without reason sometime, we start expecting returns, we behave like having sole onus of changing others. These are the set rules which govern our life. If we refresh our complete thought process and learn to accept changes and understand situations, joy of life will unleash forever. 

While taking more interest in others' life we completely forget about our own creativity. Everyone of us is unique and own some skill or art which is special but we hardly find enough time to nurture it as we are very busy studying others affairs. Living life in own way is awesome. When we shift our attention from others to ourselves we start knowing self and suddenly direction of life becomes reality. Some tips in nutshell:

6. If really decided, avoid procrastination and enjoy living life in your own way.

Jul 4, 2016

टूटे पत्ते का दर्द (Pain of Broken Leaf)










वो कल कोपलों के बीच सबका प्यारा था
हरित चमक लिए, अनूठा वो सबसे न्यारा था।
ओस की बुँदे भी आकर उसपे ठहरती थी
हर चिड़िया उसका स्पर्श पाने को रूकती थी।
वो हरा भरा, उस पेड़ की डाल का गौरव था
उसकी दुनियाँ आबाद थी, सारा वैभव था।


समय की यात्रा में
वो रंग खोने लगा
हरा था , बाद में पीला पीला होने लगा।
एक दिन वो सूख गया और रोने लगा
जगा हुआ उसका संसार सोने लगा।
किसी ने नहीं सुनी उसकी, हवा का झोंका आया
छिटक गया वो डाल से, बोलो कुछ समझ में आया।
हर कोई दोहराता ये, बस वक़्त अलग होता है
फिर भी इंसान में गरूर कितना होता है।
आपाधापी में जिंदगी खूब मचलती, तड़पती
चेहरों पे नकाब डालने से उम्र नहीं बदलती।
कुछ अच्छा कर लेने की ठान लो
मनाओ मन को या खुद ही मान लो।

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