Aug 28, 2013

Perception and Thought Process

Generally our thoughts are governed by our perception. We complain why we are not achieving upto our expectation. There may be many factors responsible for achieving less and among theses I feel Perception too plays vital role affecting our thinking process and obviously execution level finally.

I would like to mention an example here, One of my Client who was always busy in finding good business opportunities and i would say to a great extent he was successful also in his business adventures most of the time . One fine day he came to my chamber and while in informal talk with me he asked few questions

Why I dont feel good about life ?
Why there is a feeling of being lonely ?
Why all my achievements are not enough to make me happy ?

First I congratulated him for asking such questions then he was surprised what for I was greeting him. I replied .. Dear .. you are my client since last 25 years and I never had such nice questions from your side . You always came to my office for some work and despite our 25 years relationship never asked about your health or my health or else...  I congratulate to you for starting of real thought process. He was still confused .. Sir I want to transform but how I really dont know ?  I knew he was very much selfish and never been supporting others...

I replied can you ask me what  the age of human being in our country ... he told 65 .. ok I said and asked what is your age he said 56 ... I asked him to reduce his age from the average age and he answered .. Its 9 years only.  While replying my last question I could see his face and expression full of introspection. He cried, astonished and told me Sir I never thought this way.. Life is now remaining only for 9 years more .. I got less time to lots of thing for others too.. He is completely a changed man today.. Just by changing Percetion.

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